Embracing Menopause - Sovereignty and Creative Rebirth

conversation Jul 30, 2025

Join us as we welcome back Dr Saida Désilets for a transformative discussion about the empowering journey of menopause, challenging the misconceptions that often cloud this significant life phase. We explore menopause as a "power stage," a time where wisdom and vitality can flourish, shaking off the myths that suggest a loss of vitality post-fertility. With cultural stories and personal anecdotes, we emphasise the impact of shifting our mindset to embrace menopause as a rejuvenating period, a time of self-fertilisation and creative rebirth.

Our conversation delves into the evolving nature of desires, whether they are sensual, relational, or spiritual, and how these desires guide us toward a fulfilled life. By introducing practices like heart-centred meditations and conscious breathing, we underline the importance of building a deep connection with one's body, fostering sovereignty and emotional aliveness. This episode inspires listeners to look forward to every stage of life with anticipation and excitement, fostering open conversations that empower women to see menopause as a period of personal emergence and legacy creation.

As we navigate through the chapters, we celebrate the liberating phase where self-sovereignty takes centre stage, allowing for personal enjoyment and authenticity. The discussion extends to nurturing body sovereignty and health by emphasising the importance of understanding hormonal health and adopting practices that enhance well-being without relying on external interventions. From nurturing curiosity to embracing the power of choice even amidst grief, we wrap up with the transformative potential of recognising oneself as a sensual being, culminating in an exploration of life's "yum" moments that open us up to the beauty and pleasure inherent in everyday life.

Points Of Discussion:

0:02:00 - Embracing Menopause
0:08:23 - The Power of Changing Desires
0:20:42 - Exploring Sovereignty & Aliveness
0:35:26 - Embracing Sovereignty & Sensuality
0:39:27 - Nurturing Body Sovereignty & Health
0:48:27 - Navigating Grief & Emotional Alchemy
1:03:08 - Embracing Sensual Power
1:14:15 - Cultivating Yum and Presence

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Books Mentioned: 

  • Good Energy by Dr Casey Means
  • Hormone Repair Manual by Lara Briden ND   
  • Breaking The Age Code by Becca Levy 

 

About Dr Saida Désilets

Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a TEDx speaker, researcher, counter-culture creatrix, body-philosopher, and author, her work has touched the lives of millions globally.

Dr. Saida’s innovative approach to PsychoSexuality, desire, and pleasure invites both the public and professionals to better understand the importance of accessing and cultivating their erotic genius.

Her medically-endorsed, trauma-transcendent method—Embodied PsychoSexual Method—integrates somatic awareness, neural and cellular re-patterning and robust reframes of sensuality and sex which all work in harmony to support the erotic individuation process. This work is an essential part of a medical protocol to support sexual optimization as well as part of the BrainTap App, and has made significant contribution to sexual medicine in co-authorship of a ground-breaking paper on Vulvoplasticity with Dr. Wickman.

Dr. Saida has two published books, contributed to 4 best-selling books, and has over 20 online courses exploring issues such as healing and reclamation post-trauma, transforming shame, reclaiming pleasure, and embracing one’s sexual sovereignty. Her pièce derésistance is her world-renowned,1000 hour accredited certification program for professionals supports and inspires practitioners from different modalities to lead their industry in the conversation about sexuality & pleasure.

The Embodied Love University, co-founded with Aaron Michael, is a comprehensive, sexual education platform that provides sexual fluency and free education for all. When not researching or creating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.

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